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Thursday, March 29, 2007

Didnt blog for about a week or so.. =p. Lazy cum busy mah!

For a start, ytd something stupid happen, and finally added some colour into my life! =)
Your know friendster, I did put my e-mail and stuff over there, so there was this guy who added me claiming that he is first timer using MSN and he know my e-mail through erm.. Friendster. Well, he wish to be friend with me. Actually, I dont really mind stranger frm net la.. but..

So he say he wanted to ask me question, frm past experience, normally pple will ask for your photo first. So I told him, " If you are going to ask me for my photo, or which is me in the friendster pic, save it. I am not going to ans you. "
Therefore he decided to ask me some other question. At least to me la.. Lol

Rash96 - this is his e-mail - : Say are you a gerl?
Me: Yes I am a gerl.
After a few minutes...
Rash96: What are you doing?
Me: I am surfing the net, obviously!
Rash96: It is a rather stupid question huh?
Me: Yea.
.... Another few mintues pass by...
Rash96: Will you go out with me???

Right after that sentence, I was soooooo disgust by him la!!! >.< Do guys always do that? - ponder - I told my senior - Let's call her Rain - about it.. and we decided to play along with him! Lol.. Like what my senior say, " If you are really very bored, It is a good way to entertain yourself! "

Rash96: Ans me pls?
Me: Why not you tell me your friendster first? And then I will ans you back.
Rash96: No no.. Ladies first.
Me: I am nt a lady.. I am just a gerl, so you tell me your friendster if not I am not going to ans you.
Rash96: You ans me and I will ans your question back.

Me: He ask if I wanna go out with him..
Rain: ur price is $70 for afternn date, $100 for evening, excluding dinner and supper, PS:for more physical contact, pls add in 50%.. I was laughing like dont know what over here infront of my com!
Me: Nah.. later he take it for real.. >.<
Rain: Then reply him, I will go if only you are a handsome guy! =)

Right, so I really reply him that.. And know what he say?

Rash96: I am a handsome guy.
: So Yes or no??
Me: Send me your photo.
Rash96: I have no photo of myself. Promise.
Me: I dont believe, It is One: You show me your friendster or Two you send me your photo. If not I am not going to ans your question.

Soon, he is repeatively asking me if I wanna go out with me. Right, he is getting piss off.

Me: He is getting piss..
Rain: That's the idea, Make him piss.
Rain: Tell him: I will give you my friend friendster account, and you shall give me yours. Fair?

I told him and he reply a No.. zzzz
Me: Why do you want to go out with me?!
Rash96: Becus I luv you!!
: Will you be my gerl and go out with me?? - what a ass -
: I promise I will make you happie everytime.. - I am gtting piss now! -
Me: Well.. I have someone I like, therefore I cannt go out with you. However, I can intro one of my friend to you.
Rash96: Okie.. hu is that?
Me: She is someone I met online.. Pretty!
Rash96: okie.

And then My senior and I were calling him dumbass... =p.

Rash96: Can I go out with you one time? Plss???
Me: I told you I have someone I like le, so the ans is NO!
Rash96: But, he wont know! Just onc time, and then I will not disturb you.
Me: No..
Rash96: If not you send me your photo
Me: Well, I have it on my friendster, didnt you see it!?
Rash96: But this time you are naked.. - since when am I naked. -
Me: Oh well.. I needa log off, I will give you my friend e-mail. Do add her. She is one chio one! Bye.

And I log off.. Block him and del away. Gosh . How can he be sooooo.. dumb?! It is rather obvious le lorx.. !@$%#@!&^@
After blocking him.. One of my ex classmate.. Frm 4A. talk to me.. Well, I got supicious lorx.. He normally dont talk to me! >.<
And he ask me, if someone make me angry just now. Right.. I think it is him laRX! Stupid..

At least this event added some oil to my life! ^^. Cya~!

9:03 AM sprinklinq love Y

Monday, March 19, 2007

Mr.Right/Miss Right

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，

就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。

諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，

約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，

如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出

相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，

但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，

直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情，

才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」，

是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」就要靠「努力」，在愛情的經營中，

順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。

有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散

而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。

所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right / Miss Right，

而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、

成長到什麼程度，若沒有培養出經營幸福的能力，

就算真的 Mr / Miss Right出現在你身邊，

幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中，

這不就是許多愛情虛無症的遭遇與心態嗎？

若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶，

不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，

我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，

就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律「邊際效益遞減法則」，

跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，

而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，

而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，

當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；

而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，

再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。

但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，

舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。

千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。　

所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，

應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，

同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，

因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，

所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

幾米........文章:

　

我遇到貓在潛水，

卻沒遇到你。
　

我遇到狗在爬樹，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到夏天飄雪，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到冬天颳風，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到豬都在結網了，

卻還是沒有遇到你。

　
我遇到所有的不平凡，

卻一直遇不到平凡的你。

愛上某人的八個理由

1.當妳正在忙時，卻把手機開著，等著他的電話..

妳已經愛上他了

2.如果妳喜歡和他兩個人單獨漫步..

妳已經愛上他了

3.當妳和他在一起時，妳會假裝不注意他，

但是當他離開妳的視線時，妳會急著尋找他...

妳已經愛上他了

4.當他受傷或生病時，妳會很關心他，替他著急..

妳已經愛上他了

5.當他和別人要好時，妳會感到吃味...

妳已經愛上他了

6.當他把臉貼近妳時，妳會感到臉紅.心跳加速..

妳已經愛上他了

7.當妳看到他那甜美的笑時，妳的嘴角會揚起一絲得意的笑..

妳已經愛上他了

8.當妳看到這篇文章時，心裡想到某個人..

那麼妳肯定已經愛上他

Did ya think of anyone when reading all those??
~~I have... maybe I really fallen in love with him..~~

Think through~

7:27 PM sprinklinq love Y

Thursday, March 15, 2007

火相星座（白羊、狮子、射手座）start from Q1
　　
风相星座（双子、天秤、水瓶座）start from Q2
　　
土相星座（金牛、处女、摩羯座） start from Q3
　　
水相星座（巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼座） start from Q4
　　
　　Ｑ１：住在城堡里的你，想要饲养哪种动物，以陪伴你度过无聊的时光？
　　
　　（骏马-Ｑ５；小兔子-Ｑ６）
　　
　　Ｑ２：你觉得哪种颜色的苹果最可能有毒？
　　
　　（鲜红色-Ｑ６；青色-Ｑ７）
　　
　Ｑ３：只有一点点钱，会捐给谁呢？
　　
　　（卖火柴的小女孩-Ｑ７；乞讨的老婆婆-眩６）
　　
　　Ｑ４：最希望先从魔镜中看到的事情是什么？
　　
　　（前世-Ｑ８；未来-Ｑ７）
　　
　　Ｑ５：受邀参加误会，会穿哪种鞋子出现？
　　
　　（红色舞鞋-Ｑ９；银色舞鞋-Ｑ１０）
　　
　Ｑ６：在森林里迷路，谁能拯救你？
　　
　　（猫头鹰-Ｑ１０；猎人-Ｑ１１）
　　
　　Ｑ７：舞会中穿什么最会引人注目？
　　
　　（设计特殊的多层次礼服-Ｑ１１；超华丽礼服-Ｑ１２）
　　
　　Ｑ８：为了和王子在一起，会和家庭中的反对势力对抗吗？
　　
　　是-Ｑ１２；否-Ｑ１１）
　　
　　Ｑ９：以下哪个是辨识女巫的特征？
　　
　　（闪电-Ｑ１３；月亮-Ｑ１４）
　　
　　Ｑ１０：有两个动物，都说自己是被魔法诅咒的王子，哪个可能是真的？
　　
　　（青蛙-Ｑ１４；知更鸟-Ｑ１５）
　　
　　Ｑ１１：送给王子的礼物，你会选什么颜色的缎带包装？
　　
　黄色-Ｑ１５；粉红色-Ｑ１６）
　　
　　Ｑ１２：如果和王子在一起，要牺牲自己的声音，你愿意吗？
　　
　　（是-Ｑ１６；否-Ｑ１５）
　　
　　Ｑ１３：和王子的定情之吻，你想要发生在什么情景之中？
　　
　　（舞会中-Ｑ２０；月光下-Ｑ１９）
　　
　　Ｑ１４：王子送给你的定情礼物是什么？
　　
　　（钻石项链-Ｑ１９；会说话的镜子-Ｑ１８）
　　
　　Ｑ１５：吻醒王子会解除魔法，你会从哪儿吻起？
　　
　　（额头-Ｑ１８；唇-Ｑ１７）
　　
　　Ｑ１６：发现王子有其他对象，你会？
　　
　　（退出，祝福他们-Ｑ１７；不放弃，继续争取-Ｑ１８）
　　
　　Ｑ１７：得到神奇魔棒，你最想要实现的愿望是什么？
　　
　　（嫁给英俊的王子-Ｑ２１；学会透视术等魔法-Ｑ２２）
　　
　　Ｑ１８：和王子结婚后，你觉得幸福是什么？
　　
　　（和王子到处旅行-Ｑ２２；生孩子，有个温暖的家-Ｑ２１）
　　
　Ｑ１９：想要住在哪里的城堡？
　　
　　(山丘-Ｑ２３；湖畔-Ｑ２２）
　　
　　Ｑ２０：希望能和哪种类型的王子结婚？
　　
　　（打败敌人的英雄王子-Ｑ２４；沉稳治国的王子-Ｑ２３）
　　
　　Ｑ２１：你是怎样施展魔法的？
　　
　　（用魔法棒-“Ｄ“；用手指-“Ｃ“）
　　
　　Ｑ２２：觉得被囚禁在哪里比较恐怖？
　　
　　（海底龙宫-“Ｃ“；魔法森林-“Ｄ“）
　　
　　Ｑ２３：想和谁学习魔法？
　　
　（巫婆-“Ｂ“；妖精-“Ｃ“）
　　
　　Ｑ２４：居住的王国被邪恶势力侵占时，你会怎么做？
　　
　　（施展魔法来对付-“Ａ“；寻找其他力量来帮忙-“Ｂ“）

“Ａ“：小红帽
　　
　　热情是你性格中的宝藏。生活中虽然会碰到许多困难，但你轻易不会被苦难击倒。
　　你有爱恨分明的个性，最讨厌事情不清不楚，也讨厌拖拖拉拉，做事有冲劲。只要你
　　选对打拼的目标，并坚持下去，成功一定在望。对于中意的男生，你也会主动接近对
　　方，不过胆小男生可能不太敢接受你的热情，开朗大方的男生和你才速配哦！
　　
“Ｂ“：灰姑娘
　　
　　耐力是你性格中的宝藏，面对辛苦的状况，一般人都忍受不了，但善于忍耐的你，
　　还是会埋头努力，因为你相信路遥知马力。性格进退有分寸的你，能得到许多朋友的
　　信赖。但小心谨慎的你，异性缘就有点差了，因为你会防范异性，总担心遇到坏男
　　生，绝对需要有耐性花时间和你磨下去，等你慢慢发现他的优点并信任他
　　
“Ｃ“：白雪公主
　　你有交际天分，人缘超好，能够认识各式各样的朋友，人际关系广阔。在你遭遇困
　　难的时候，只要开口，这些朋友就会跑来帮你摆脱麻烦。你的恋爱对象也常常是从朋
　　友转变来的。但要小心自己和普通异性朋友太ＭＡＴＣＨ，以免使自己的恋人吃醋
　　
“Ｄ“：美人鱼
　　
　　温柔是你性格中的宝藏。你不喜欢显山露水，情绪容易波动，很在乎周围人的想法
　　和感受。你常为别人的不快乐而焦虑，恨不得立刻去帮助他，因此你的人缘不错。可
　　是当你自己碰到困境时，却常常往坏处想，是悲观的女生，不小心还有习惯性的自怨
　　自艾。在心上人面前你不太会积极主动，只能默默付出，等待对方注意到你。要是有
　　朋友和你喜欢上同一个对象，你可能还会退让成全他们。这样的态度，会让你离幸福
　　越来越远，一定要小心哦！

I am a D.. quite true.. hahaha

5:22 PM sprinklinq love Y

Monday, March 12, 2007

Well, as you can see, I have change my blogskin.. This new blogskin is totally different from the previous one. If you were to ask me which one I like the best, honestly, I like this one.. Cus it is black in colour! Lol.
All right! My friend send me some insipring quote or should I say pictures.. but being lazy, I shall post it up instead of forwarding it to your. =p

I would prefer to be a honest failure than to be a corrupt success

Before you speak, Listen
Before you write, Think
Before you spend, Earn
Before you criticise, Wait
Before you pray, Forgive
Before you quit, Try

As we sail through life, don't avoid storms and rough waters.
Just let it pass.
Just sail
Always remember, calm seas never make skillful sailors.

When you make a mistake, don't look back at it long.
Take the reason of the thing into your mind and look forward.
Mistakes are lessons of wisdom.
The past cannot be changed.
The future is yet in your power.

People will forget what you say.
People will forget what you did.
But people will never forget, how you made them feel.

Anyway, the background song is change as well... Title:不够勇敢

Perhaps in life, I am not courageous enough. Maybe at times, if I have the courage to really persue what I wanted, things might be different now.

My aunt once told me, she wanted to have the power to turn time back. I asked her why? She told me because she made a few wrong mistakes, a few wrong decision which have affected her life as a whole. Who didn't make wrong decision? We are only humans.
This is taken from Min Jie's blog
"'Oh, if I were young again.' You now what that reflects? Unsatisfied lives. Unfulfilled lives. Lives that haven't found meaning. Because if you've found meaning in your life, you don't want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more. You can't wait until 65"

I am regretting...

12:36 AM sprinklinq love Y

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

All right.. As I promise, I am finally back to blog and to clear/sweep away the spider web!!! Happy? =)
First Thing first.. Happy Chinese New Year LA! - it is over I know.. - so,so, This year New Year fell on a Sunday! One extra day for those who are having school - Not me, having holi till APR. -My New Year being on the New Year eve as I help me mum to prepare the food for the steamboat - tiring! - After my relative left, I realise the 肉干 which I have spend cutting into small size is finish! FINISH! I haven even ate one piece la!!! %$^%$#^ - angry!!! - clean up the dirty hse.
Then, at around 10pm? or 11, can't really rmb, went to uncle hse to bai bai - it is a tradition/culture? - Yep.. then (drum roll) FIRST DAY OF NEW YEAR!! Whee!!! - Ang baos -

First Day of New Year:
Went to my grandma hse.. we were the earliest~ haha.. eat eat eat over there - 肉干! - no one fight over it with me! =) Had steamboat for lunch, play cards with cousin and off to my uncle hse! More Ang Baos!
Over @ my uncle hse, had a rather gd catch up with my cousinssss - mostly guys. - Took a few pictures of my cousin and nephew.. - Yes , I am an aunt now. >.< -

he is trying to talk to me when i snap the photo therefore the blurness of the photo. Lol

They didnt know I am taking photo lorx.. Meet my cousin!

Currently, she is the youngest among all my paternal cousins.. She is babe isnt she? So cute!!! I love her hair lorx! Her name is Belle!

this is my cute nephew, he tried to eat my fried prawn when I am playing my cards.. cute` And Benson - my cousin - say this: Yinghui, the prawn has more value than you! >.< I agree. PS: I won around $2? just playing big 2!!! Muhaazz!!!

Day 2: Went to watch the lion dance performance over @ my elder uncle hse.. Something yucky happen, but I am already use to it la! Ps: not fight okie? Then went over to my maternal aunty side to gamble.. lost around $1 -.- - arbish -And last stop, to my aunt hse.. Steamboat again! GOSH!!!! In total, I had a profit of $2 lehx!!! ^^

For Day 3 and 4, went to my God-Ma hse to bai nian and to my daddy company to erm.. 开工！ Day 7: Hse visiting day with my dear friends. A pity min was sick.. if nt, the whole gang will be completed larx!!! hais.. Well, there is always next yr! =) Went to Shawn hse first - will skip his hse then - Second stop: Quan's hse. Lao Yu Sheng. Here is a video of us Lao-ing the Yu Sheng

Us, Taken by quan's mum! Thanks!

Grp photo over @ quan's hse

Last Stop: My hse.. Steamboat + Mahjong + TV.. Darrell and Jing Ying join us! ^^
SteamBoat with all of them!

Our group photo of the day

Love them always!

Oh ya.. On the 3rd of March 初十四, my family cum aunty and ting ting went into Malaysia @ arnd 11pm+++ reaching 12am the next day lorx.. - crazy bunch of pple -. We went in to 放鞭炮! siao right! Saw fireworks on the way to meet my daddy friends. Took some video.. rather dark larx! all you can see is the fire and stuff...
There is 3 videos.. Erm.. can hear me scolding Wa Lao cus the sound was so damn loud! >.<...

The first video: Enjoy~

The second video: Enjoy

The last video: enjoy, it is short la.

In the first two video, you can hear me shouting/screaming into the phone becus I was being attack. The very first one I was being attack by the stone. As the fire cracker was place near stones, so when it explodes, the stone flew.. and hit me in my stomache! kua kua kua!
The second one was the 鞭炮 known as 老鼠,they will fly in any direction de, the thing - two together la! -flew towards me and hit me!! >.< So heng can! Was attack three times in total! Wa lao!

Now.. New Year is over, gt on with the studies horx!!! ^^
Ps: Happy 19th Birthday to my kor!
PPS: Will be away from Singapore from 7th March till 10th March, so pls try nt to message me on my phone! arigatoe! muacks!

2:45 PM sprinklinq love Y

Monday, March 05, 2007

sorry guys! I know I haven been blogging for like I dont know when.. but I will be back the day after.. I need test the photoshop and stuff.. >.<.. And there is something wrong with my HANDPHONE! OMG!!!
Anyway, the group photo taken over @ my hse is ready.. those who haven receive it, MSN me all right? or your want to e-mail me to ur.. just tell me lorx.. ^^

Btw, I have finally learn how to do the blinkie words!!! Whee!!! So happy.. so much effort put in! Muhaax!!!
So.. that's all nia.. I will blog again!! Trust me!
And, Congraxt to all of you for ur A's Lvl result.. though I only know a few... haha.. will catch ur one by one and ask again.. - mauckx -

12:43 AM sprinklinq love Y